Employment

Am tired with this jobs!!!! Employment sucks!!!!

In my recent seminars and discussions,I interacted with so many people among them was a 58years old man ,what moved me a lot was his words of wisdom, at his age being the breadwinner of the family he had just lost his job, the company  he had worked in for decades was going down and I quoted him speak with a lot of bitterness “  Am tired of this jobs,being employed sucks!! And I couldn’t wish my kids to go through the trauma have faced.”

After doing my research, consultation and much engagement with people in the same situation ,I have published this article to help someone, but first I would like to put this across, If you are comfortable,satisfied and financially secure in your Job please don’t read this ,it might intimidate you, if you are open to explore and learn a different world and a new way of seeing things then go o n

I will feature in some % more enlightening Aspects here. Don’t make any conclusion till you analyse the whole article.

1.     Is employment Important?

According to research done, the stability and growth of an economy rests on the power to maintain low unemployment rate and provide a safe secure environment for labor, in return businesses save money and the society benefits as well, so the importance of employment rests on the balance created by both the producer and the consumer .

Before we conclude on that, I want to break down to aspect no 2 to get a diversified view.

2.     Why Employment?

90% of our current population want a good paying Job why? Lets see some reasons that push people to scale down to dropping cv’s everywhere in such of greener pastures

        I.            Justification &usage of their hard and expensive earned documents.

Its true our society advices everyone to go to school, work very hard to get good grades, graduate and find a high paying job. Since an individual has invested his time & money to study and acquire  the documents and certificates thus they get the pressure to find a related career to get a job. The problem is Practical life is different, most people end up feeling devastated because they come to realize whatever they learnt in the classroom is not applied anywhere in real life even the business they work for thus it leads them to get brand new & wild experiences they were never prepared for.

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      II.            Social  & financial security.

Most people want respect and approval  from their peers, families and even friends. I was talking with some of my friends on the same issue and I popped up a question on why would most of us take a high paying job rather than create one, and we had some random answers like, I don’t want to fail or struggle building a business that am not sure of… and others were like…am well respected with my job and if I leave it, how will I pay the bills, my expenses are way too high and most people are going to laugh at me.

Am not sorry to say this, that most people live for the masses ,but the stone cold fact is, they will die alone ,more bitter with so much regrets for not pursuing their major course and purpose on earth.

Social proof and financial security also causes fear amongst people. This is what most employers have realized and they have taken full advantage of it to intimidate and control people, we will strip that in aspect no 3.

3.     Stigmatizations & fears caused by employment

You know Brian ,I run this kinyozi because I failed in high school, my friends and peers have graduated and they are now going to get good jobs , I can no longer fit their class, I here this stories more oftenly but think about this….why do you feel discriminated or left out? Is it because the society  society norms and beliefs made you think you are not worth because your grades and scores weren't good?

well the phrase is going to change soon simply because we are now having Many frusted and unemployed graduates verses self made rich and successful dropouts.

Think about this

• Your time in a job is always stipulated NO FREEDOM, you have instructions and orders everywhere, you are entitled to rules and regulations, alot of strict terms, conditions and policies that you can't even dare go against

You report to work abit late, maybe you got caught up in a road jam that you didn't even expect, it's not even your boss who instils fear in you rather your fellow workmates who are freaking afraid too, you will hear them telling you (nanii unacheza na unga), this is your daily food , you loose it, you starve, you will work under pressure ,fear and intimidation because your boss knows you have no room to do any other thing to put food on the table and this doex not fulfil the importance of being employed.

• Mostly this goes to the freshly employed graduates ,its like you dont learn nor get advice from your Predecessors , most of you get employed based on contracts so that you can offer cheap labor, when you start getting deep insights and more exposures and you are supposed to get a permanent job , your contract is either, terminated, renewed or extended and you are given vague stories, Does this make you feel good or get you more traumatised ?

I hate to be the one telling you this, but 90% of our population are living In FEAR.
The fear of,: What people will say
                   : what if I fail
that alone is enough to make you less progressive and stagnant.

Some people wish and others are willing to take a different path ,but they are not aware nor sure of what to do, when to do and why they should begin in the first place, lets check that in the first place, lets that out

4. Escaping the employment Trauma

Employment trauma is caused by extreme stress and mind damage most people get in their Jobs, a lot of worries which leads one into horrible stressing moments , First let me highlight some that people dont recognise 

• Bad debts- I pity some graduates and campus students who tell me, I just want to get a job so that I can get a loan to sustain an keep me going

                                 Think of this, anytime you get a job your company or even workmates introduce you to loan saccos and chamas, well its a way of helping you and destroying you at the same time, Why on earth should you be given money that you dont know how to manage??

You are falling into traps like, "We are going to give you house allowances, fueling allowances and many more manipulative claims, ... you now have a stable job and its going to secure you, take a loan, buy a car, build a house...this is crap. its going to mark the beginning of your endless cries, its a trap my dear and it will cause you agony.

• Fear of termination - when it comes to the word YOU ARE FIRED...most people freak and can even go insane. Most people would all they could just to keep their Jobs, you end doing things that doesn't please you. This becomes a major hit and causes alot of headache and once it becomes a habit trying to get over it and you get hooked to painkillers and stress relievers,since you have no peace of mind.
•  Increasing bills, expenses and responsibilities- The trio always goes up with time, the more you work and earn the more they take a high ladder too. we are never prepared for this academically thus they will cause emotional and psychological Imbalance.

You can escape that even if you are trapped in it, you only need to do this.

Just Understand -Where you are

                          - How you got there

                          - Why you are there

                          - What you need to do to get out.

So is there a better way? as I sum up lets check the last aspect

5. Is there a better way

Yes, We are in an evolving world, things change from time to time, ages come and go , so we should not stagnate in one point we should keep going and exploring.

You need to understand that there are people in our real world owning multi-million dollar projects and they started from scratch, our current technological age gives opportunities that you can explore and achieve financial security more way safer ,faster and efficient.

Personally have shared with peasants and princes. Have learnt much from many peoples experiences and it has given ,me a diversified view of what life seems like. Today I help people explore what is of good interest to them depending on their strengths,fears,talents, passions and financial abilities. have been educating, empowering and creating more diverse opportunities for most people.

I will soon be launching affordable training programmes, financial courses across the globe, because I believe in education being the root & base to solve our crisis, its going to more diverse ,social and interactive where you will be acquiring practical knowledge not theoritical .

I  offer more diversified money genaration  options, so if you are looking for what to do either full time or part time just contact me throught the details given below.

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